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Violence That Teaches

Cornelius Plantinga, Not the Way It’s Supposed to Be

If a child irritates a parent by wetting or whining and gets punished with uncontrolled anger and physical violence, the child learns more than “don’t do that.” The child learns about power, fear, and what love looks like under pressure. Plantinga’s observation underscores that the manner of correction is itself a curriculum.

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Uncontrolled anger toward a child does more than punish behavior—it forms the child.

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