Analogy

What They Actually See

common parental wisdom

Children rarely do what we say. They do what we do. The gap between our stated values and our actual patterns is one of the most effective teachers in the home. Lectures about honesty lose force when the child watches small deceptions. Talk about kindness is undercut by the tone used with a spouse. The most powerful curriculum is still the unscripted life they observe every day.

How you’d preach it

Sobering for parents and leaders. Children absorb more from observation than from instruction.

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