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Hard to Find the Antivenom

Cornelius Plantinga, Not the Way It’s Supposed to Be

Plantinga writes, “To be envied is to have something venomous aimed at you for which it’s surprisingly hard to find the right antivenom.” If you hide your good, you may fuel more suspicion. If you display it, you may intensify the resentment. He names the awkwardness of the position and the need for unusual wisdom and grace.

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Being envied is its own kind of wound, and the right response is surprisingly difficult.

  • Pride
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  • Anger

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