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He Never Once Hurt My Feelings

Traditional anecdote (Somerset Maugham’s parents)

Somerset Maugham’s mother was an extraordinarily beautiful woman married to a man widely considered ugly. When a friend asked how she could have married him, she replied, “He has never once hurt my feelings.” The answer relocates the measure of a person. Outward form fades. The cumulative weight of never wounding the one closest to you does not.

How you’d preach it

Beauty and attraction are not only physical. Consistent kindness is its own form of attractiveness.

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